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Categories: Being Different & Being Yourself, Kindness, Non-traditional Families, Resilience / adaptability

Those Shoes

A brilliant book that puts the reader in the shoes of a child in poverty, acknowledging the frustration and sense of injustice a child feels when they can’t have the things their friends take for granted.
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Those Shoes

Author: Maribeth Boelts
Illustrator: Noah Z. Jones
Publisher: Candlewick Press

“I have dreams about those shoes. Black high-tops. Two white stripes.”

It’s easy for adults to dismiss a child’s obsession with owning the latest pair of trainers as an unnecessary indulgence. But to the child, they can be a way of feeling that they ‘belong’ to their peer group. A child living in poverty may feel excluded and humiliated if their family can’t afford things that other children have, and this book skilfully reflects and acknowledges this.

It seems as if every child at Jeremy’s school has the shoes he desperately wants, but can’t afford (as his grandmother points out, “there’s no room for want around here – just need.”) When his shoes fall apart, a teacher donates an old (desperately uncool) pair from the box kept aside for ‘kids who needs things’. Jeremy feels humiliated and even more isolated. Only one child in the class doesn’t laugh at his babyish shoes: Antonio Parker (a kid who also wears old tatty footwear, held together with tape). Jeremy and his grandma find a pair of the coveted shoes in a thrift store, and Jeremy convinces himself that they fit him well and buys them with his pocket money, despite the fact that they are painfully ill-fitting. Back at school. Antonio and Jeremy get to know each other better, and Jeremy decides (after much conscience-wrestling) to pass his beloved high-tops on to his new, smaller-footed friend.

Maribeth Boelts has breathed life into the character of Jeremy and it’s easy as the reader to understand just how he feels; his frustration and resentment, and the injustice, imbalance and powerlessness. It would have been easy to create a central character that was a martyred angel, but she has not fallen into this pitfall. Jeremy struggles with his conscience and feels guilty for wanting something he knows his family can’t afford. He feels like a real boy in a situation that sadly many other children find themselves in, relying on food banks and thrift stores.

Simply illustrated in a deceptively thoughtful way, with a tone that is just right. Highly recommended.

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The messages we found in this book:

Acknowledgement:

  • It is easy for a child to become fixated on owning something that is out of reach to them.
  • Having desirable objects such as the latest shoes can help a child to feel more part of their peer group ‘tribe’. When Jeremy has to wear ‘babyish’ shoes he feels humiliated and isolated, and the laughter of the other children really hurts.
  • Children find it far more difficult than adults to distinguish between ‘want’ and ‘need’.
  • It’s really hard for Jeremy to not have what the other children have and he struggles to control negative feelings surrounding this such as jealousy and resentment.
  • Jeremy gets a kick out of seeing how happy Antonio is in the donated shoes, but he still feels angry that he has to wear the babyish ones.
  • He is so desperate for the shoes that he’s prepared to put himself in extreme pain to wear them.
  • Jeremy struggles with his conscience as he decides whether to give away the shoes or not.

Guidance:

  • There are many families who can’t afford new things for their children (or choose not to buy them). This doesn’t mean they’re less ‘cool’ than everyone else, and differences in appearance should be respected rather than poked fun at.
  • Kids with very little tend to appreciate things more: Jeremy loves wearing his snow boots as they haven’t been worn by anyone else previously.
  • A kind act rewards the giver as well as the receiver. Jeremy feels happy to see Antonio wear the donated shoes.

Hope & Inspiration:

  • The central characters in the story show empathy. Grandma is sensitive to Jeremy’s feelings – she doesn’t tell him off or prevent him from buying the obviously too-small shoes. She makes sacrifices for him, and is willing to spend her savings on buying him something new. Jeremy notices that Antonio’s shoes are broken and how much he also wants new shoes.
  • Jeremy and Antonio’s friendship develops; they feel less alone.
  • Jeremy runs and hides instead of donating his shoes to Antonio in person. The motivation for this is unclear, but Jeremy has obviously given this thought. Did he want to avoid a polite refusal, or prevent Antonio from feeling embarrassed?
Worth noting:

It’s implied that Jeremy is cared for my his grandmother – no mother or father is mentioned.

This book was kindly donated by one of our generous supporters. Find out ways you can support the project here

Review by: Claire Ward-Dutton

Categories: Being Different & Being Yourself, Kindness, Non-traditional Families, Resilience / adaptability
Tags: friends, gratitude, jealousy, poverty



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