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Categories: Parent In Prison

Daddy’s Time Out

Having a loved one in prison can be bewildering and distressing for a young child. They may feel shame, guilt, separation anxiety, and a host of other challenging emotions, or feel that they are no longer loved by (or feel that it is no longer appropriate for them to love) the estranged person. This simple, age-appropriate story helps to reassure, educate and comfort.
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Daddy's Time Out by Rachel Nee Hall


Author: Rachel Nee Hall
Illustrator: Anastasia Opoleva
Publisher: Cresting Wave Publishing

“And even though my daddy was very sorry for what he did, someone very important said that Daddy needed a time out, and now Daddy lives in a place called prison.”

Nibblit the rabbit is missing playing with Daddy, who has had to ‘go away’. Nibblit explains that Daddy did something to break the rules (he took carrots from Farmer Brown’s garden without asking) and was reported to the police, sent to court and eventually to prison.

Nibblit explains that Daddy regretted what he did, but the authorities still decided that he had to have some ‘time out’ to reflect on what he had done (Nibblit’s Mama recounts the time when Nibblit made some poor choices while playing with a friend and was sent to their room for some ‘time out’ to think about what happened).

The story acknowledges that having an incarcerated parent is difficult for the little rabbit, and Mama gently explains that although Daddy has made some bad choices that does not mean that he is a bad person, and he still loves Nibblit very much. The relief that Nibblit feels to hear this is described in a simple way that small children should identify with (“hearing that made me feel all warm in my tummy”.)

Author Rachel Nee Hall clearly understands the issues and difficulties that can arise when a child has an incarcerated loved one, and has set the tone just right in this helpful, reassuring and comforting story. The illustrations, painted in warm tones in a style reminiscent of classic fairy tale books, compliment the story well, show the varying emotions of the characters and provide a useful prompt for discussion.

The messages we found in this book:

Acknowledgement:

  • Having a parent or other loved one in prison can be confusing and distressing for a young child. The child may feel that they are no longer ‘allowed’ to feel love for the incarcerated person. Or they may worry that the person no longer loves them.
  • A child may mistakenly feel that they are somehow to blame for a loved one’s incarceration. The book clarifies that the child isn’t at fault.
  • It’s normal to feel angry in difficult circumstances, and that’s OK.

Guidance:

  • No-one is perfect. Everyone makes poor choices sometimes.
  • Just because you do something bad doesn’t mean you are a bad person. Mama gives Nibblit a big hug after their ‘time out’ for hitting a friend, to reinforce that you are still loved, even if you make a poor choice.
  • If a parent is distanced from their child, their love for them is not diminished.

Hope & Inspiration:

  • After Mama has explained how much love Daddy still feels for Nibblit, the rabbit feels better.  Nibblit looks forward to being reunited with Daddy, and telling him that everything is ‘OK’.
Worth noting:

The book includes some helpful discussion prompts and author notes. ‘Daddy’s Time Out’ is one of a series of books which are geared to help young children who have a parent, sibling or other loved one incarcerated.

Review by: Claire Ward-Dutton

Categories: Parent In Prison
Tags: absence, behaviour, emotions, father, loneliness, loss, prison, separation anxiety, transition



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