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Categories: Anxiety, Death & Bereavement, Resilience / adaptability, Sadness

Mum’s Jumper

A thoughtful, sensitive and realistic portrayal of the thoughts and feelings of a young girl following the death of her mother.
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Mum's Jumper

Author: Jayde Perkin
Illustrator: Jayde Perkin
Publisher: Book Island

We are often told that recovering from the death of a loved one takes a long time, but time eventually heals. In this poignant and honest book, the author has taken a slightly different stance, suggesting that the feeling of loss never goes away, but we adapt and change to cope with it.

The story opens with a little girl visiting her mother in hospital, accompanied by her father. The next morning, there’s a call to say that she has died. Dad and daughter begin the long process of coping with their huge loss; the initial numbness and shock and confusion gives way to anger, resentment and confusion. The girl finds her mum’s favourite sweater, and she starts to wear it to feel closer to her. Dad explains that grief is a like the jumper: the grief stays the same size, but you eventually ‘grow into it’.

Using simple yet powerful language and illustrations,  Jayde Perkin has accurately reflected a young child’s feelings surrounding the loss of a parent, and the story serves as a reminder  that children grieve and process emotional trauma in different ways than adults.

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The messages we found in this book:

Acknowledgement:

  • It’s difficult for the girl to leave Mum behind in hospital; she wishes she was at home with her, joining in.
  • Even surrounded by kindness and support, grief can make you feel alone and isolated.
  • The girl experiences lots of different emotions and feelings during the grieving process: anger, lack of concentration, feeling ‘blurry’ and unreal, plus physical symptoms such as aching muscles, tiredness and feeling cold.
  • She feels angry at times when she sees other children with their mothers.
  • The girl finds it hard to work out why mum would leave the possessions she really liked, like her favourite jumper, behind.

Guidance:

  • When abstract descriptions of death are used, children can become confused. When Mum dies, Dad says “She’s gone”, but the girl wonders where she has gone. Other grown up conversation confuses the girl, too – she can’t understand why everyone is saying “I’m sorry” when it’s plainly not their fault.

Hope & Inspiration:

  • Just as Dad describes, the girl’s world grows slowly around her and she begins to come to terms with the loss of her mother.
  • The girl feels her mum’s influence, love and presence everywhere. She lives on within her, and in the world surrounding her.
Worth noting:

In the USA, this book has been published with a different title: ‘Mom’s Sweater’.

This book was kindly donated by one of our generous supporters. Find out ways you can support the project here

Categories: Anxiety, Death & Bereavement, Resilience / adaptability, Sadness
Tags: anxiety, father, growing up, jealousy, loss, mother, single parent, transition



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