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Categories: Anxiety, Depression in Family, Feelings, Moving House, Resilience / adaptability, Sadness

Charlie and the Dog Who Came to Stay: A Book About Depression

This gentle and reassuring story should chime with any young child who is living with depression, whether it is themselves or someone else who has been affected by it. A useful tool to help children to understand depression and how it can change people's feelings and behaviour, containing practical non-preachy guidance and coping strategies.
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Charlie and the Dog Who Came to Stay


Author: Dr Ruth Spence
Illustrator: Kimiya Pahlevan
Publisher: Cherish Editions

Author and psychologist Dr Ruth Spence has devised a friendly and accessible book that introduces children to the subject of depression and acknowledges and supports those living with it.  The use of a ‘black dog’ as a metaphor for depression has been used many times in adult literature, and here it translates well into a story for children, featuring a dog that isn’t frightening or sinister in any way.

“[Charlie] became friends with a dog called Depression. It is not a very good friend. “

A young girl (called Charlie) has moved house, away from her friends. This big change in her life is the catalyst for depression, which is depicted in the story as a large black dog who overwhelms her with its persistent presence. It is shown sometimes towering over her, other times climbing on her so that she literally feels it weighing her down and sapping her energy. Charlie begins to lose interest in the things that used to make her feel happy (cycling, playing games, reading) and other symptoms of depression emerge: anger, grumpiness, tiredness, sleep disturbances, lack of concentration. Charlie’s mum notices the changes in her daughter and decides ‘it is time for Charlie to get rid of her friend’. She finds time to sit with Charlie and talk about the dog, and encourages her daughter to re-boot her hobbies and interests. She distracts her from her sad thoughts for short periods by reading with her. Over time, Charlie is able to give the dog less of her attention, and as she becomes absorbed in other things, it shrinks from a large to a small, more manageable, size…although the depression doesn’t vanish completely, she learns ways to cope with it and keep it in check.

It is reassuring to know that a professional psychologist is behind the book; the messages conveyed have clearly been carefully researched and considered and have been delivered with a lightness of touch that should engage young children. Kimiya Pahlevan’s bold comic-book style illustrations, heavily key lined in black, compliment the story and keep the tone just right. Depression is something that touches the lives of so many children in so many different ways, and we applaud this writer/illustrator team for providing an excellent and much-needed resource to help children struggling with this illness.

The messages we found in this book:

Acknowledgement:

  • It can be very hard to find the energy and motivation to do things when you’re feeling depressed. Charlie’s big heavy dog lies across her shoulders, sapping her energy and making everyday tasks difficult.
  • Depression can cause changes in behaviour that are challenging to cope with: anger, exhaustion, grumpiness, lack of concentration. It can leach the joy out of activities that were previously fun. Charlie used to enjoy cycling, reading books and playing games, but not so much since her visitor arrived.
  • Symptoms of depression can show themselves unexpectedly: the dog ‘sneaks up’ on Charlie and barks at her, giving her a headache and making it hard for her to relax. At night she can’t sleep very well as she’s learnt to ‘wait’ for the dog to ‘surprise’ her.

Guidance:

  • Depression has many symptoms and effects.
  • Sharing how you feel with a trusted person can help you to feel less overwhelmed by persistent sad thoughts.
  • A big change or major event can sometimes trigger depression.
  • It is easy to get into a vicious circle of dwelling on negative thoughts that make you feel sad, which in turn puts you off doing the things that help you to feel good. It can take strength (and encouragement and support from a trusted adult) to break this cycle and start to re-introduce once-enjoyed activities.
  • Small achievements and taking ‘baby steps’ can help you to recover. Charlie stacks up her games in her room, which helps her to feel more in control of her feelings.
  • Fresh air and exercise can help and serve as a useful distraction. Charlie and her mum take a bike ride which ‘shakes off’ the dog for a while.

Hope & Inspiration:

  • Charlie gets ‘back to her old self’.
  • Depression may never ‘disappear’ completely but it is possible to manage it so that it doesn’t become all-consuming. Her mum has given her opportunity to chat about depression, and she will be able to recognise symptoms if they come back and know what to do to help herself.
Worth noting:

A discussion guide is included in the back of the book, with questions and activities to help children explore the subject for themselves.

Categories: Anxiety, Depression in Family, Feelings, Moving House, Resilience / adaptability, Sadness
Tags: anger, behaviour, change, depression, emotions, exercise, feelings, grumpiness, loneliness, mother, transition



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