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Categories: Death & Bereavement, Owning a Pet, Resilience / adaptability, Sadness

The River

A beautiful, hopeful picture book that supports and acknowledges children struggling with complex emotions. The boy in the story experiences (and recovers from) a prolonged period of sadness following the death of his pet dog, but the themes in the story would be useful for many scenarios.
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The River by Tom Percival

Author: Tom Percival
Illustrator: Tom Percival
Publisher: Simon and Schuster

A new Tom Percival book is always eagerly anticipated at Little Parachutes. It is certain to contain many helpful messages for children to hold close to their hearts as they negotiate the peaks and troughs of growing up. He truly understands and is in touch with their emotions, acknowledging them respectfully without preaching or grown up rationalisation, holding a mirror up to them in the most exquisitely beautiful and natural way.

In The River, we meet a boy called Rowan who loves exploring the countryside with his dog. The river that flows through the story provides a metaphor for the boy’s ever-changing emotions: it is sometimes quiet and calm, sometimes light and playful, and at other times wild and angry, just like Rowan. Then one particularly cruel winter, Rowan’s beloved dog dies, and he descends into a deep and inescapable sadness (reflected in the story by the river freezing over). The love and support of his parents and the warm spring and summer sunshine fail to melt the ice, and it’s not until the autumn, and the arrival of an injured bird to care for, that Rowan’s heart begins to thaw and heal. As the bird recovers and is able to fly freely, once again the river flows and Rowan realises how much his emotions are like the river: constantly changing.

The narrative flows equally through both words and pictures with many poignant details, such as the death of Atlas the dog, shown in illustration only. The author’s love of the countryside shines through in the stunning natural panoramas in a palette of colours similar to a Constable landscape.

The messages we found in this book:

Acknowledgement:

  • It is healthy and normal to have constantly changing emotions of all kinds. When a complex emotion sticks around, this is when things can get more challenging.
  • It can take a long time to recover from an emotional trauma. Rowan’s healthy, varied emotions get replaced with an overarching feeling of sadness, and this lasts for many months.
  • It can be really hard for children to deal with sadness. Rowan tries so hard to feel better, forcing himself to focus on happier times. His parents give him plenty of love and support, but he just can’t escape the difficult feelings.

Guidance:

  • Sometimes caring for someone or something else or having a new goal or outward focus can help you to heal. Nurturing the injured bird and noticing its resilience and ability to recover helped Rowan to find happiness again.

Hope & Inspiration:

  • Rowan eventually stops feeling persistently sad and learns that emotions are ever-changing.
  • He has the love and support of his family.
  • He is a caring boy, carefully looking after the injured bird.
Review by: Claire Ward-Dutton

Categories: Death & Bereavement, Owning a Pet, Resilience / adaptability, Sadness
Tags: anger, depression, dog, emotions, feelings, growing up, loss, persistence, transition



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